A friend of mine's mobile phone had been stolen while she was lying sick in the hospital. Oh boy...how could it be? kok bisa-bisanya orang yang dah sakit. Dibikin tak berdaya lagi dengan dicuri hand phone-nya. Walah walah....teganya...

Back here again Malang after the 10 days of the little tour. So here's a little report as I heard many people had been waiting for this...he he he ...kidding (emang ada ya..he he he)...

:: Tuesday, July 13, 2004
3.25 pm. Leaving Malang by train. Mostly sleeping and reading in the train. The train is fully booked.

:: Wednesday, July 14, 2004
8.30 am. Arrived at Gambir. Very very late train. Picked up by brother, cousins, and uncle. Stay in Meruya Selatan (my uncle's house). Mostly rest and some chat with relatives.

:: Thursday, July 15, 2004
11.00 am. To Gunadharma University Depok..just accompanied one of my cousins. Depok Mal. Just like the other mall. Mc Donald's for lunch, my little cousin who chose the place to eat. Very crowded.
At night. To the other relatives in Cempaka Putih and Slipi. Got back and tired. Too much traffic jam.

:: Friday, July 16, 2004
Stay at the same place, not going anywhere..have some more chat with relatives there.

:: Saturday, July 17, 2004
10.00 am. DuFan...Yay! Lots of screaming and wet for sure. Had to queue for 30 or 45 minutes to get to 1 minute game. Interesting, huh?
Night. Got back and tired and have a good sleep.

:: Sunday, July 18, 2004
1.00 pm. Went to Bandung by car.
Arrived at Batu Kumeli in the afternoon. Have a rest.

:: Monday, July 19, 2004
Morning. To Pasar Baru. Have shopping with mom and auntie. Nice place. Market but almost look like mall with cheap stuff. Wow...mothers, they're good shoppers he he...
Afternoon. Went to another uncle and stayed there in Griya Caraka, Cisaranten Kulon. Here's the place where I met 2 of my youngest cousins. Cute ones.

:: Tuesday, July 20, 2004
Morning. Another day to Pasar Baru. Another shopping by mothers and now I do shopping also with sisters. Have lunch here also and watch out in the food center here. Cause you will be surrounding by food sellers and offering their food. Not just one or two but more than five. The place is nice and clean. But the sellers are a little bit annoying. But it's a good food anyway and finally I know what Nasi Timbel is.

:: Wednesday, July 21, 2004
Morning. And another day in Pasar Baru.
Afternoon. Here's where some accidents have happened while I was playing with two of my cousins. Such as throwed a tomato on my nose (Ouch!). I was being stepped on my foot by my cousin who is 5 years with the weight of about 23 kg. She also pinched me in many parts of me. He he...well it's funny anyway and her brother is really really cute and have a very very nice baby's smile I've ever seen.

:: Thursday, July 22, 2004
Moved to another auntie's place. Terusan Jakarta. Stay there for one night. Eat Yamin. Bandung Super Mall. A place for the rich. Nice and big one.

:: Friday, July 23, 2004
Went to Semarang by car. The car was stuck cause something wrong with something. And have to wait for 2 hours in the repair shop.
10.00 pm. Arrived in Singotoro, Semarang. Sleep. Tired.

:: Saturday, July 24, 2004
Went to my cousin's place who just have a baby. Little 4 month-old baby named Vava. I think her name is Ivana and Vava is her nick name. I like Vava. I think it's a cute name and cute baby.
Leave Semarang. To Salatiga. Have lunch in somewhere between Ngawi-Solo. Not quite good food we had. Arrived in Malang at 7.00 pm

Hi !!!!! I'm back. The report of the 10 days tour will be written later. Glad to back. It's good to be back...

Tomorrow will start my Tour de Java for one or two weeks. Don't miss me, guys....he he he. I'll be back.

Today's news. Congratulation to Nad who's getting engaged in the month of August. I'm glad to hear that. Finally she met the one. She said everything is running so smooth and now she's ready for anything. There are many boyfriends she had in her past years. Even when I never knew a guy in my life, she had his boyfriend already. Well...she's pretty..no wonder he he he.....She just knew this guy for several months and she thinks she's the one. Well that's good for her as I know many things that had happened to her before. I learn many things about guys from her. And finally she made it now. I wish everything will go just as she wishes. So today's lesson that me, Nadia and Fay has learnt : when destiny has planned then it will flow just like that. Maybe just like us, honey.... hopefully.....

Not just me. I'm not the only one who has to struggle when we're going to step into the next level of our relationship. Some obstacles that has to be done and settle with. Marrying different race in Indonesia cause problems too. And again I'm not the only one. Others who has already made it confess the thing. Parents is the most common problem dealing with mixed race marriage in Indonesia. The others could be culture and religion and relatives. And I think generally people who's getting into the next level of relationship not just those mixing race marriage may cause problems. Well let just say that those are one of the exams that has to be finished before getting married. And I think no matter what and generally, we had to struggle to get what we want, don't we??

Tour de Java. Going to Jakarta next Tuesday. Visiting some relatives and surely some travelling around. Is there any nice place that I can visit in Jakarta. Any suggestion, people? Will be there for 2 or 3 days and then continue to Bandung, a place for shopping and refresh the eyes. Probably will be 2 or 3 days there and then go to Semarang for several days and hopefully I can go to Jogja too. Fay called it as Tour de Java. Well Tour de Bali is not for this time so at least Tour de Java will do this time. The tour is not my idea...this is actually mom's idea. She would like to go and have some refreshment out of town. Me and my sister then would surely ok with that after what she has been through lately. I'm not really too excited with the travelling cause I know that I would go and visit some relatives that means some rules and regulations that have to be obeyed :P.... bad Vivin, huh...he he he....and cause I'm not really close with them unless my 2 cousins who are 6 years old and 2 years old one, my uncle and my auntie in Bandung. Well I know I would not feel that free to go anywhere. It's not the same like when you're going with friends or boyfriend. But anyway it would still be ok with me and I know that I will enjoy it.

Things to say. It's difficult for me to find some good time when and how to say the thing to dad. I wanted so much to say it right away. I just feel that I'm not ready to say that to him. I am so lame...I know that. I am worry?...yes...I am afraid?...yes....I am chicken?....yes...well sometimes....I think I know what to say and some clue about it. But still I could not find the best time for that. Ok...Vivin...grown up...grown up!. That's what Suci said to me about this matter. Well maybe she's right. But deep inside of me I know I will make it.

Foster chicken. There's a chicken living in the backyard accidentally. It just came in the back yard of the house some weeks ago. At first time she came, she fought with the bird who has been cared by dad for a long time. But these days, they're getting along to each other. Dad has already asked some people in the neighbourhood who might had been lost one of their pets, but no one feel that they lost it. So here she goes...living in the backyard together with the bird, my dad's pet. So me and my sister call her, the foster chicken.

Don't know what's wrong with my comment which is supported by doneeh.com. It's been so many days not working. Well it's a bit dissapointed. Myabe they have been constructed a new system or something. Hope it won't be too long.

Fun testing.
Trust your first answer...well just a fun thing to do anyway. Well most of the result of my answer are true ;) Try it....

Test no. 1: The Third Eye
If you could have the third eye on your body, where would you put it on?
1) your head
2) your heart
3) your back
4) your hand
My answer is (3)
Here is the analysis:
1) You have no respect to your lover, instead, you often exploit him/her. As far as love is concerned, you are too QUICK. You easily fall in love with someone and leave him/her right away when you get bored.
2) Since you are scared of being cheated by the others or not wanting to be disappointed again, you, therefore seem to be contented with your unrequited love.
3) It takes you a long time and big effort before falling in love with someone. But, once you are in love, you will love him/her with all your heart, sincerely and forever.
4) It is hard for you to get deeply involved with someone. Most of your relationships are just more than friends but less than lovers.

Test no. 2: What Kind of Chair Do You Prefer?
Your selection of the chair can tell you the type of person you are.
1) Cloth covered
2) Leather covered
3) Wood
4) Cushioned
5) One with a built-in massager
My answer is (4)
Here is the analysis:
1) You want your partner (girlfriend/boyfriend) to be together with you always, no matter when or where.
2) You want your partner (girlfriend/boyfriend) to be more open with you about himself/herself.
3) You want your partner (girlfriend/boyfriend) to take more care of his/her dress and manner.
4) You want your partner (girlfriend/boyfriend) to be a little bit more relaxed, calm and composed.
5) One with built-in massager. You want your partner (girlfriend/boyfriend) to do more for you.
The message behind the question:
A chair is for sitting on. If you choose to sit on certain chair,you have no suspicions or distrust towards it. This is the same psychology present in our relationship with the people we like. In other words, the qualities you look for in a chair are similar to the qualities you look for in a partner.

Test no. 3: Why Do You Love Someone?
*** 1 9 5 0 ***
What is your first thought when you saw the above number?
1) Year
2) Phone number
3) Money
4) Combination code in a locker room
My answer is (1)
Here is the analysis:
1) You think he/she is very smart one....you love his/her brain.
2) You love his/her personality....Everything he/she does is beautiful.
3) Let's face it.....you love his/her money.
4) You love his/her appearance....you like a good looking person.

Test no. 4: The Cave You Want to Visit
You decided to go for a cave tour. What kind of caves do you want to visit?
1) Cave with a narrow entrance but a wide exit.
2) Cave with a same space of entrance and exit.
3) Cave with a wide entrance but a narrow exit.
My answer is (2)
Here is the analysis:
The philosophy behind this test indicates how you spend your money......
1) You easily spend your money much more than what you earn.
2) You keep balance between the money you can earn and the money you spend.
3) Stingy you! Though you have earned a lot of money but you hardly spend it off.

Test no. 5: When Will You Get Married?
There is a cake with plenty of room to put many more candles on it. How many more candles do you want to put on the cake?
1) One
2) Two
3) Three or four
4) More than five
My answer is (3)
Here is the analysis:
1) Wow! You seem wanting to get married as soon as possible. You may get married at the age of 20 or right after you have finished your education.
2) You want to be married a little sooner than the other. However, you want your marriage to be agreed and pleased by the others.
3) You want to enjoy your youngster life as long as possible. So you don't want to be married too soon. You may get married when you are over 25 even you already have your steady loved one.
4) You are full of curiosity. You are curious about everything. You want to travel and accumulate your experience more and more. You want to prove yourself with the challenging work. You may enjoy your unmarried life until you are 30 or over even you have had so many lovers by then.

Test no. 6: A New Plant
Noticing a new plant pop up from the ground, what is your first thought?
1) Glad and want it to grow quickly.
2) Be careful. Don't step on it.
3) Oh! Will it give flowers?
4) Thank God! Many thanks to you, God, for its growth.
5) All right! No more watering!
My answer is (2)
This test indicates your attitude towards your parents....
1) You don't want your parents to interfere whatever you are doing.
2) You feel grateful to your parents for bringing you up and making you a nice person.
3) You rely on your parents so much and want them to be always close to you.
4) You have your sincere thanks to your parents.
5) You want to be self-survived as soon as possible.